the most i can remember regarding xiuho's relationship was that because of suho's agebreaker thing, xiumin saw him as a friend first and that seems like it'd put them on even level before we add the leader thing into it. idk, maybe because of xiumin's less ambitious personality, there's no bumps or anything lol i still remember one of the fancams of the wolf mv filming and suho was just adjusting xiumin's clothes for him and u__u so domestic and peaceful lol